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不是有回報才去付出,而是付出了才會有回報
2019-02-11 10:15:29 來源:河北德育網 瀏覽:973

在我們剛進公司參加入職培訓的時候,領導給我們講了這樣一個故事:

“公司同事招了兩個實習生,一個叫小譽,一個叫小澄。一開始剛進來時,兩個人都是意氣風發、干勁十足,但是他們很不幸被分配到一個大家都不愿意去的部門。因為那個部門的領導是大家公認的專制,并且喜歡搶下屬的功勞。

很快,小澄就摸清楚了這個部門的脈絡,也學到了大家對領導的精髓,凡事能推則推,實在推不了就隨便敷衍過去,小澄很快跟其他同事打成了一片。但小譽則完全不受這些影響,每天早上他都是最早來到辦公室,給整個辦公室開窗通風,及時更換純凈水,下班時最晚走 ,關門關窗。領導有事交代時,別人都推辭但他會二話不說就接下來,一個人加班加點干完。他這種做法并沒有使他得到部門里的好人緣,相反,幾乎所有人都看他不順眼,認為他一個人勤快,顯得其他人工作馬虎又敷衍,一邊喝著他扛回來的純凈水,一遍暗暗罵他是個“馬屁精”。領導不傻,知道小譽是最聽話最勤奮的下屬,有事基本都找他,所以他是這個部門里比部長還忙的人,即便這樣,領導也沒有給他應有的待遇,每次他熬夜做完PPT,會議上就成了領導侃侃而談的資料;當他幾乎獨立完成一個項目時,會議上被表揚的人永遠是領導而不是他;而等到升值加薪時,他最多只處于部門里的中等水平。因為其他人工作雖然不積極,可是資歷老,而他是最好說話的那個人。

有時候,看不過的人會問他為什么不自己爭取,別人以為他會抱怨領導如何不好,但他卻說了一句至今令他人難忘的話:“我知道你可能覺得領導對我不太公平,但是他給了我很多學習的機會,我敢說,現在部門里沒有一個人比我更了解這個部門的運作。”

幾年后,公司見這個部門一直是整個集團評價最差的部門,決策層有意更換領導。當核心層領導找他們談話時,驚訝地發現部門里竟然還有小譽這樣一個人,比他的領導還了解這個部門,比他領導更知道問題在哪兒。當時適逢集團提倡多多提拔年輕人,決策層開會決定讓小譽暫代這個部門的負責人,如果他能勝任就正式任命,如果不行再進行外招。

厚積而薄發,沒有了領導的掣肘,小譽大膽革新,剔除舊弊,獲得了公司領導的一致好評,沒到試用期結束就提前轉正了。部門里其他人原本對公司決定不服,但如今大勢所趨,也漸漸地改變了態度。

后來別人問了他一個問題:假如這次不是公司正好想換掉他的前領導,難道就一直接受這樣不公平的待遇嗎?

小譽老實說,其實他已經有了辭職的打算,這幾年來他已經學到了他想學到的東西,完全能夠勝任更高要求的工作。他陳懇地對問他問題的人說:“工作頭幾年,我根本沒有想過要多少回報,只想著多學點東西,以后用得著。””

故事到這里就結束了,從小譽的身上我看到了“短期不如意,根本不會影響個人的成長,甚至會成為自己成長時最好的環境”。但是我們有多少人有這種覺悟呢。

或許以后我們在做事情的時候可以想想,我們做每一件事,是為別人而做還是為自己而做?當我們想明白這一點以后,或許就不會再以敷衍的姿態做任何事了。

當我們的付出沒有得到想象中的回報時,我們怨恨、懊惱,滿腹牢騷,最終決定不那么努力,去懲罰沒有給我們更多回報的人,我們以為懲罰了對方,殊不知正好懲罰了自己。之所以會犯這種錯誤,是因為我們太計較一時得失,忘記了什么才是最重要的。

是啊,我們應該明白不是有回報才去付出,而是付出了才會有回報

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